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I’m Tamara. I’m a young 43 year old mom who was diagnosed with stage II melanoma in April 2003, just six months after marrying this wonderful man in the photo with me. Marc is my reason for living. I was divorced several years ago and have been embroiled in a bitter custody dispute for five years. If I had been diagnosed without having Marc in my life, I would have just quit. We have been the best of friends for many years and never envisioned having a life together. Fortunately for us Fate had other plans for our life’s journey.

We have endured eight tumor incision removal procedures in seven months. The first tumor that lead to the diagnosis was in my right leg. The second were two rumors removed from my left shoulder. Then a MOHS procedure done on two tumors on my face, just under my right eye. Then other tumors removed on my right jaw, left forearm and several off my back. I have five tattoo’s and now joke about having zippers tattooed over all my battle scars.

Our passion is riding our Harley Davidson motorcycles. We live in Anchorage Alaska and the riding is spectacular to say the least. The 2003 ride season was a hard one for us because my surgeries were done from April to December. I rode on a few trips with lots of stitches and refused to let it slow me down. I am blessed with a wonderful doctor here in Anchorage. His name is Dr. Peter Ehrnstrum of the Alaska Center of Dermatology. Peter started removing moles from me sometime in 1996. It’s funny even after having close to 40 removed I still have enough to share with everyone I know. Peter has us on a every four months maintenance check up program.

Summer 2004 has been a beautiful summer. We’ve done over 8400 miles on the Harley’s and I have lived and loved every mile. Riding with our group for me is a spiritual thing. The riders in front and in back of you rely on your riding skills, they don’t know I’m sick, and for me it’s the only time I don’t feel sick. I’m just like everyone else ridin’ along the beautiful scenic highways of Alaska.

My father died at a very young 49 years old. I was only 25 and he was my hero, my best friend, mentor and everything that was important in life. So when I was diagnosed my instant reaction was to think I would die young too. Fortunately, Marc doesn’t believe the same. It has been with his undying love and support that we have been able to live and love each day. Our favorite expression is "grow old with me...the very best is yet to be." And that is how we live each day. I want to be still be around for my girls, Dani who is 20 and Jaye who is 17 for a long, long time.

So we take each day as the gift it was intended to be and be grateful for it.

Life is too short to sweat the little things.

This is just a bump in the road on the journey of life.

 
 
 

Hi, my name is Jennifer and I am in Northern California. In July 2003, I discovered a mole towards the back of my left leg. I had my dermatologist take a biopsy and the test came back positive for Stage III Melanoma. I had surgery in late July 2003 to remove the melanoma and it was determined that the cancer had spread to my lymphnodes in my left groin. The mole itself measured a 5 on the Clarks scale. Out of the 17 lymphnodes removed, one was positive for melanoma.

I started Interferon treatment in mid-August of that year. In October, I came down with cellulitis, an infection near the site of my incision. I was in the hospital for 3 days. Later that month, the cellulitis returned and I spent an additional 6 days in the hospital. The interferon treatments went pretty smoothly until I discovered a series of blue dots around my incision site in February 2004. After my doctor took a biopsy, it was determined that the blue dots were metastatic melanoma lesions. Thus, the interferon was not doing its job and my doctor told me to discontinue the treatment. A PET scan and a brain MRI determined that there were no cancer growths in any major organs of my body. I had surgery on April 27th to remove the spots and I am now recovering. Once I am fully healed, I will start at least one month of radiation, 5 days a week. Hopefully, the radiation will kill any melanoma cancer cells that may be in my body.

I am maintaining an active lifestyle and a very positive outlook. The support of my family, friends and co-workers have been invaluable. I want to raise awareness of melanoma and the dangers of going in the sun without the proper protection. Frequent checkups from a dermatologist are also important in the early detection of melanoma.

If you would like to talk over email, please drop me a line at jaws5977@yahoo.com.

 
 
 


I was just recently looking at this web site.. It has a lot of good information.. I was glad that I found it. My name is Danielle. I am a 21 year old college student that goes to West Chester University in Pa. I am a Jr. working on a degree in Physical and Health Edu. But, the real reason I am writing is I am looking or hoping to find people to talk to people with the same issues that I am dealing with. I was diagnosed with Melanoma in June of 2003 and I have been through BioChemothreapy and I will be going through Chemotherapy. I am still going to school working on my degree. Everyday I wake up knowing that I am doing something that I love... which is going to school.. I want to teach and teach others about my illness as well.

I like to talk to people through email or instant messenger so don't be afraid to drop a line.
Dholmes1718@juno.com
Aol: Hockey17Dan

Take Care.. Keep your spirits up.. You can beat cancer one day at a time.
Danielle :-)

 
 
 

This is our angel Jillian Beach. Diagnosed with melanoma in Dec 2000 at age 11 years. She completed one year of Interferon and remained NED until June 2003. Currently stage IV as of this posting she has done one round of IL-2. Our PatNet is DebJill. Jillian is the youngest of five children and no family history of melanoma. Jillian is an Honor Roll student. She is a French immersion student from age 6. (Speaking French fluently). She plays the flute and had been an avid soccer player until the stage IV diagnosis. So many other things describe Jillian but the melanoma keeps creeping to the top of the list!

We love you "Silly Jilly"!~

 
 
 

I am Shauna (Shauna in Utah on the MPIP BB) I was diagnosed with MM in April 2002 at the age of 40. I sought medical treatment because of a lump I discovered in my left groin. Subsequentially after ultrasound and a biopsy I was diagnosed with stage III MM. In May 1998 I had a mole removed on the back of my left calf—it was diagnosed as atypical spindle cell nevus. Presumably the MM originated somehow from that mole but we will never know for sure. I had a left groin lymphedectomy in April 2002; shortly after this surgery the surgical incisions (I also had a benign tumor removed from the flank area) dehisced (opened up) and I spent time on a wound vac pump to assist in the healing. On July 1, 2002, I began a year of INF and experienced many of the side effects associated with that therapy. On July 2, 2003, I concluded one year and all 164 doses of INF. In late July I had scans (MRI & CT) and at the moment I am gratefully NED. I may be the one who was actually diagnosed and treated for MM, but in my opinion my family and close friends who served and assisted me with love, prayers, patience, generosity, humor and uncommon vigilance are also warriors in the fight against this insidious of diseases. I am grateful for each and every day I have.
 
 
 

This is my husband and I (don't be fooled by the hair, I'm actually blond, blue-eyed) I am 33 and was diagnosed in October 2000 with Melanoma. A friend's mother told me to get it checked. I still waited another month. The friend asked if I had gotten an appointment. I hadn't. I knew nothing about this cancer. I thought you couldn't die from skin cancer. Silly me! The second request concerned me. I had let a family physician cut out the mole in 1996 (it itched an was an ugly black color), he apparently had no pathology done and I wasn't concerned. Within months it had grown back. So here I was in 2000, luckily with insurance that didn't require a family physician's referral, going to my first dermatology appointment. I had a WLE, no lymph node involvement, no chemo or any other drugs or treatments. Mine was .45 mm (fairly thin). Had a scare in 2002 and had to get a PET scan, which was clear. SO FAR, SO GOOD.

Thanks so much for this wonderful website. I refer it to everyone I know. I speak out whenever I suspect a mole -- even to strangers. It saved my life, I can only hope I do the same for someone else by speaking up. My biggest hope is that people get educated about this cancer and soon! Don't be as dumb as I was.

 
 
 

This is Brian Bailey. He is now 13 years old. He was dx'd in July 2001, when he was 11 years old. He did four rounds of biochemo an a year of interferon. He is such a brave warrior to go through all this at such a young age. He is a great kid who likes to hang out with his friends and ride his 4-wheeler. He also loves nature and being in the timber. He shot his first deer with a bow and arrow at age 10. We are very, very proud of him.
 
 
 


My name is Dawn Carlson and my first melanoma appeared in a small mole when I was 21. It was removed and a WLE was done and all was clear. The doctors monitored me for the next few years and after 5 years, they told me that I would be okay. They told me that mm would most likely never return...I was safe.

They were wrong. In November 2002 at 29 years old, while living in Tanzania with my amazing husband Mike, a CT scan showed a lesion at the base of my right temporal lobe. I was subsequently flown home to the States and one week later, I was there for the birth of my nephew Ethan (in the picture). One week after that, the tumor was removed. I have since been through radiation and I am still on chemotherapy to beat this disease.

I work hard each day to stay positive because I think that might help me win in my battle. My husband can't be with me now because he has to continue teaching back in Tanzania. Even though we are apart, his support has been more than I could have ever imagined. I will return to Tanzania soon to be with him and the rest of my family at The International School of Tanganyika but I will never give up this fight. Thank you all for your unending support.

 
 
 


This is my husband, Mike, and our precious daughter Jan. Jan is now 25 and wasn't supposed to live to be 3 years of age. She lived at home until she was 17. She has always been a daddy's girl and lights us whenever Mike talks to her....something he has to do over the phone now when his white counts are down. Jan now resides at a nursing home about 3 miles from us....she has been on Hospice for a year today....April 24, 2003...and when she went in this nursing home, Mike was not sick....so here we are today...and Mike is fighting stage IV...having had brain surgery twice and Gamma Knife twice!!!! UNBELIEVABLE!!! And Jan is still smiling her beautiful smile.

This is a picture of Pam and Mike a few months before Mike was diagnosed.

 
 


I have MM and am on the Interferon treatments. I was diagnosed back in June of 2002. The treatments have been tough but I am sticking with it. I am 21 and have a daughter who just turned 1. If anyone wants to read my board on patnet my name is laura m or my id # is 1033223355.

 
 
 


I am Claire, Meagan is my 2 yr old daughter. She was diagnosed with MM just 1 month before her second birthday. She has had 3 surgeries and is now on Interferon for a year. The medicine makes her feel bad, but she doesn't quite have the words to tell us when she's not feeling well. She tries to stay happy and play, because she just doesn't know what else to do. She has a big brother Matthew who is 5 and has a hard time with his sister being sick. When she cries, it upsets him a lot. Despite all the "pokes" she still manages to keep a smile on her sweet face most of the time. Her PATNET is under "Meagan" so that if anyone wants to stay posted about her they can read all about it.

 
 


Joe, dx december 5 2002. level4 mm on back. Will have SNB and WLE in January 2003.

 
 


My dad, Alan Mattison, was diagnosed with Stage IV Melanoma on January 14, 2002. On that day ten months ago, he had tumors in his lymph nodes, his adrenal gland, and his lung. Today, after intense biochemotherapy, there is NO SIGN OF CANCER in his PET scan!

His battle with melanoma started almost 13 years ago when a mole was removed from his chest. He was told that it had not spread, and we were thrilled. By the time he felt his lymph nodes swelling in his underarms one year ago, the cancer had already spread to his organs.

We were devastated with the diagnosis. After the initial shock and sadness, we went to work to find the best way to fight this battle. Several weeks later, we began treatment at MD Anderson Cancer Center in Houston, a decision which we believe has saved my father's life.

A few things that my family would like anyone battling melanoma or anyone who loves a melanoma warrior to know.....1) Research and find the best treatment available. You may have to delay beginning treatment for a couple of weeks following diagnosis, but that decision and your careful research may save your life. 2) If you've had ANY melanoma removed, make sure that your doctor knows about the latest research and monitors your condition carefully. Lymph nodes should always be carefully monitored for the spread of the disease, even if they believe they removed the cancer completely from your skin. 3) Don't ever, ever give up. During our time at MD Anderson, we met so many amazing people who had once been told that there was no HOPE. Years later and alive-and-well, they prove that there is always HOPE. As Lance Armstrong wrote to my father when we met him, "FIGHT LIKE HELL."

My dad has always been the smartest, kindest, and most amazing man I have ever known....and now, he's a melanoma warrior!

 
 


I'm Walter. I'm 52. In March, I was diagnosed with a 10.5 millimeter melanoma on my right ear. I don't do anything without matters getting complicated, though. The doctor ordered CT scans to check for spread of the melanoma. The scans found renal cell cancer on my right kidney. The SNBs were negative. I lost the lower half of the ear. (The reconstructed ear is visible in the picture.) For the renal cancer, I had a partial nephrectomy. It seems like I spent a whole month being sliced and diced. I've just decided against adjuvant treatment. I'm high risk for recurrence of the melanoma, but I truly believe I have come through this and will be OK.

 
 


Hi, my name is Rod Gourlay. I am 52 years old . In April 2002 I noticed a small bump on the bottom of my left foot. Although I have always closely monitored my moles, as I am high risk, I did not know that melanoma could or would appear on the sole of ones foot. Big mistake as I was soon to find out. I was diagnosed in June with Type 4a non ulcerated tumor and staged at 3. Wide excision showed tumor at 4.3mm. Elected to forgo SNB as it was a given that my nodes were compromised. Decided on alternative treatment.. Embarked on radical dietary change, lots of vitamins and herbs, some homeopathy and energy work. Have not ruled out more traditional therapy but wanted to do everything I could to boost my immune system. Last week discovered enlarged nodes in my groin and am waiting for cat scan to decide on next course of action. I am so thankful to have connected with this community.

 
 


My name is Barbara Jean and I was diagnosed in Dec 2001 with stage III MM from a mole in the middle of my back. I had SNB done in Jan 2002 and mapping showed the tumor to drain under both my arms. A total of 27 LN's removed from both left and right axilla. I am in the Melanoma Sunbelt Trial and was randomized for the "just surgery" part of the trial. I'm the mother of 2 beautiful daughters and 2 handsome sons, I have 5 grandchildren (a 4 year old, two 2 yr old's and two that are 5 & 7 months old!!)that I adore. I married my best friend, David, 30 years ago, he is my constant companion and my shoulder to cry on. We packed up our 4 children every 3 or 4 years and moved all over the world as we served for 20 years in the U.S.A.F. I've had a wonderful first 47 years of this life and am looking forward to another 47 if God's willing and the creek don't rise. I covet your prayers. bj

 
 


I'm Danielle a 32 yr old married mother of 3 diagnosed with Stage III Malignant Melanoma w/ spread to 1 lymph node. I was diagnosed in March of 2000. I have underwent 2 major surgeries & 9 months of Interferon therapy. I was down to 89 lbs before they stopped my treatment 3 months early. I'm on my own now, I guess. I have modified my diet--trying to submerge myself in the macrobiotic diet & taking anti-oxidants to boost up my immune system until a cure is found! I welcome any & all emails!
God Bless,
Danielle

 
 


46 year old mom of 3. First diagnosed 8 years ago with small malignant mole. Large tumor removed under arm last year...along with 11 nodes; 1 positive. Did Interferon for a month and decided against the injections. I take flax seed oil daily with cottage cheese and prayer. So far NED. I get inspiration from many on this BB.
Thanks.
Kathy P in FL

 
 


My name is Cindi Alleman and I am a Stage III, 51 year old Melanoma Warrior! I was diagnosed in October, 1997 so I am almost at my four year mark! What a miracle as I had no known primary and had 60 lymph nodes removed; 30 from left side of my neck, 30 from my left underarm. Of those 60 lymph nodes, 6 were infected with melanoma. Had double auxillary node dissection at the same time, 5 massive radiation treatments to three sights, 30 days of high dose interferon, and 11 months of 3 self-injections a week. I am here to tell you even with my serious case (80% chance of recurrence in first 3 years) you can beat this beast! You can contact me at any time at cindi.alleman@xpsystems.com for any further help I can provide you. Best to all in the battle against this horrible beast!

 
 


My name is Rhonda and this is my husband with me. Primary in 1989 on lower back. lung mets in April 2001. Clinical trial of IL2 and peptide vaccine didn't work for me. Still checking my options so I can return to really living. God bless you for this BB.

 
 


Hi, my name is Debbie S. Married 25 years. This is my husband Joe, daughter Jennifer and son Bryan.
Diagnosed October 1999, Stage II

 
 


My name is Jennifer and I am 25 years old. I was diagnosed in December 2000. I have undergone the WLE with SNB and am waiting for my results now to see if there is lymph node involvement, and stage.
jen92812@hotmail.com

 
 


Hi, my name is Kathy and this is my son Tom. I have had three stage I melanomas and about 30 atypical moles removed. This has been a life time battle for me against the monster. The fight started when I was 31 and now at 49 I am still having moles taken off every 6 months. I have had two cousins not win the war, but I plan on winning. My son has also had several atypicals taken off. So I am sorry to say he also is in this battle. I have armed him well for the fight. We live in Michigan for 6 months and.6 months in Florida. I am so happy to see what you all look like. It makes this more real for me.

 
 


I'm Frank Landis.
(rfl on the MPIP BB). Here I am with my family on a camping trip in the Appalachians, fall of 1999. I was diagnosed Stage I in August 2000. The primary was on the left side of my back. It was thin (0.5mm), but I chose to proceed with SNB/WLE in September 2000. NED so far. Now I wear a wide brim hat and sunscreen religiously.

 
 


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Rick F., age 41, married 16 yrs, 2 kids - Nick, age 9 and Lindsay, age 6.

I don't let Stage III MM keep me from the great outdoors. I am an avid amateur landscaper (I putz around my yard, in other words), golfer (hacker actually) and am a certified soccer dad to Lindsay. The SPF45 is always applied liberally. I survive with a postiive outlook, faith, and the love of my family.

 
 


My name is Annette Henderson. I am the caregiver of my husband, Sam. He finished a year of Interferon Sept. 1, 2000. Was diagnosed of Metastic Melanoma in 7/99. Primary site was never found, so the stage is unknown, but is probably stage III or IV. We live in Colona, IL. He is a pastor of a Free Will Baptist Church here in town, I am a CMA (certified medical assistant). We have four children and 10 beautiful grandchildren. This picture was taken in 11/97 when we renewed our wedding vows for our 30th anniversary. Anyone and everyone is welcome to write to us at Nettie1218@juno.com

 
 


My name is Rose-Ann and was diagnosed at 32 years old. I went to the dermatologist for something unrelated to melanoma then casually mentioned a mole on my stomach that bled and itched. I was later diagnosed with level IV, don't remember the Breslow. WLE, no SNB, one round of chemo, doctor didn't think I'd make it past two months. Refused treatment and opted for quality of life. Mets were found in my brain, lungs, liver, uterus, and diaphram. I will be celebrating my 50th birthday on November 24th!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Boy did I ever get quality of life!!!!!!! I attribute my healing to a macrobiotic diet, lifestyle changes (greatly reduced stress using self-help tapes, spend each day as if it's my last by laughing and enjoying my moments, exercise, and spiritual (not religious) fulfillment). I am currently NED. My best to all.

 
 
 

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